Mindfulness-Based Approaches
Mindfulness encourages us to cultivate a "noticing practice" by which we study ourselves through a curious and nonjudgmental lens.
With inner awareness, we can tap into the informational wellspring lodged within the nooks and crannies of our bodies, thoughts, memories, images, dreams, and belief systems-- and become more Self-acquainted. We may discover different parts of ourselves who cling to outdated and burdensome stories which no longer serve us. Through witnessing and attending to these often younger parts, we can lighten their load or make more intentional choices.
Curating a mindful lens in our daily lives is also empowering; we become more intentional in choosing how we respond to our inner world and in our encounters with others.
Mindfulness vs. Meditation: What’s the Difference—and Why It Matters
Mindfulness and meditation are closely related, but they are not the same.
Mindfulness
Mindfulness is a way of being.
It means bringing non-judgmental, present-moment awareness to your experience—your thoughts, emotions, body sensations, and environment.
You can practice mindfulness:
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while walking
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eating
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listening
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or even in the middle of a difficult conversation
It is about how you relate to your inner world in real time.
Meditation
Meditation is typically a structured practice.
It’s a dedicated time—often sitting or lying down—where you intentionally train attention and awareness.
Examples include:
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breath-focused meditation
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body scans
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loving-kindness practices
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guided imagery
Meditation is how we build the skill of mindfulness.
Why Both Are So Powerful
A large body of research—including programs like Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction developed by Jon Kabat-Zinn—demonstrates that mindfulness and meditation can:
Change the brain (neuroplasticity)
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Increased activity and thickness in the prefrontal cortex (attention, regulation)
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Decreased reactivity in the amygdala (fear and stress response)
Reduce stress and anxiety
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Lower cortisol levels
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Improved emotional regulation
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Reduced rumination and worry
Improve physical health
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Lower blood pressure
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Reduced inflammatory markers
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Improved sleep quality
Support mental health
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Evidence for reducing symptoms of:
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anxiety
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depression
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chronic stress
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Why This Matters in Therapy
Mindfulness can invite:
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Noticing our parts rather than becoming overwhelmed by them
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Creating space between the Self-Energy of Awareness and our protective parts
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Developing curiosity instead of reactivity
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Staying present with vulnerable material without shutting down
In many ways, mindfulness is what allows access to what Internal Family Systems calls the Self—the calm, compassionate, observing center.
Meditation, then, becomes a way to strengthen our observing capacity, making deeper therapeutic work possible.
Gayle Waitches at Illumination Counseling offers mindfulness-based approaches to individual and couple's therapy in SW Portland.